When he was at table with them, he took the bread. He blessed the bread, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him!(Luke 24:13-35)

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

St. Angela

I'm thinking about my Mom a lot today, probably because it's the feast day of St. Angela Merici—founder of the Ursuline nuns, renowned for their teaching charisms. Reading St. Angela's bio, I was disturbed that the problems in her day were a lot like today's struggles in some of the Islamic countries today; women and girls who are not allowed to learn (even severely punished for trying to) and considered 2nd class citizens at best.

Here is one of the better biographies about St. Angela that I've read:
St. Angela MericiFeastday: January 27, 1540


When she was 56, Angela Merici said "No" to the Pope. She was aware that Clement VII was offering her a great honor and a great opportunity to serve when he asked her to take charge of a religious order of nursing sisters. But Angela knew that nursing was not what God had called her to do with her life.


She had just returned from a trip to the Holy Land. On the way there she had fallen ill and become blind. Nevertheless, she insisted on continuing her pilgrimage and toured the holy sites with the devotion of her heart rather than her eyes. On the way back she had recovered her sight. But this must have been a reminder to her not to shut her eyes to the needs she saw around her, not to shut her heart to God's call.


All around her hometown she saw poor girls with no education and no hope. In the fifteenth and sixteenth century that Angela lived in, education for women was for the rich or for nuns. Angela herself had learned everything on her own. Her parents had died when she was ten and she had gone to live with an uncle. She was deeply disturbed when her sister died without receiving the sacraments. A vision reassured her that her sister was safe in God's care -- and also prompted her to dedicate her life to God.


When her uncle died, she returned to her hometown and began to notice how little education the girls had. But who would teach them? Times were much different then. Women weren't allowed to be teachers and unmarried women were not supposed to go out by themselves -- even to serve others. Nuns were the best educated women but they weren't allowed to leave their cloisters. There were no teaching orders of sisters like we have today.


But in the meantime, these girls grew up without education in religion or anything at all.
These girls weren't being helped by the old ways, so Angela invented a new way. She brought together a group of unmarried women, fellow Franciscan tertiaries and other friends, who went out into the streets to gather up the girls they saw and teach them. These women had little money and no power, but were bound together by their dedication to education and commitment to Christ. Living in their own homes, they met for prayer and classes where Angela reminded them, " Reflect that in reality you have a greater need to serve [the poor] than they have of your service." They were so successful in their service that Angela was asked to bring her innovative approach to education to other cities, and impressed many people, including the pope.


Though she turned him down, perhaps the pope's request gave her the inspiration or the push to make her little group more formal. Although it was never a religious order in her lifetime, Angela's Company of Saint Ursula, or the Ursulines, was the first group of women religious to work outside the cloister and the first teaching order of women.


It took many years of frustration before Angela's radical ideas of education for all and unmarried women in service were accepted. They are commonplace to us now because people like Angela wanted to help others no matter what the cost. Angela reminds us of her approach to change: "Beware of trying to accomplish anything by force, for God has given every single person free will and desires to constrain none; he merely shows them the way, invites them and counsels them."


Saint Angela Merici reassured her Sisters who were afraid to lose her in death: "I shall continue to be more alive than I was in this life, and I shall see you better and shall love more the good deeds which I shall see you doing continually, and I shall be able to help you more." She died in 1540, at about seventy years old.




Here's a few things to think about today in honor of St. Angela AND my mom:

Take a look around you. Instead of just driving or walking without paying attention today, open your eyes to the needs you see along the way. What people do you notice who need help but who are not being helped? What are their true needs? Make a commitment to help them in some way.




Prayer:
Saint Angela, you were not afraid of change. You did not let stereotypes keep you from serving. Help us to overcome our fear of change in order to follow God's call and allow others to follow theirs. Amen

Sunday, January 25, 2015

A Love Letter to Timothy

A love letter from St. Paul to St.Timothy (and from a proud uncle to his nephew)

Looking at the Saint of the Day for tomorrow, I was delighted to see it is St. Timothy, since my nephew is named for him.  Tim and his beautiful bride Rosarie (I LOVE that name, BTW) got married last week in a very beautiful church with a lot of family and friends in attendance.  It was clear to all who attended that faith in and love for Jesus Christ has been and will continue to be at the center of their marriage.

If you don’t know my nephew Tim, you only need to read the first eight verses of the first chapter of Paul’s 2nd letter to Timothy to get acquainted.  I say this because as I was reading it again today, my only thought was “This sounds like a letter my brother Bob would write to his son, his ‘dear child’” if such letters could be written from Heaven.  Of course, I wouldn’t dare to change a word of Holy Scripture, so I put asterisks next to certain lines and will footnote them after the passage.

Paul, an Apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God for the promise of life in Christ Jesus, to Timothy, my dear child:  grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord.

I am grateful to God, whom I worship with a clear conscience as my ancestors did, as I remember you constantly in my prayers, night and day.

I yearn to see you again, recalling your tears, so that I may be filled with joy, as I recall your sincere faith that first lived in your grandmother Lois  and in your mother Eunice  and that I am confident lives also in you.*

For this reason, I remind you to stir into flame the gift of God that you have through the imposition of my hands. **   For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice but rather of power and love and self-control.

So do not be ashamed of your testimony to our Lord, nor of me, a prisoner for his sake; but bear your share of hardship for the Gospel with the strength that comes from God.  ***
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*When reading this line, you could substitute the names Angela and Marilyn for Lois and Eunice.

**While Paul is probably (Traditionally) speaking of the ordination of Timothy as a bishop, there are gifts of God that Tim has received through the Sacraments of Baptism, Communion, Reconciliation, Confirmation and Matrimony that are every bit as powerful as that of Ordination.
 

*** God knows Tim has borne his share of hardship in this life—and usually with the silent confidence in Christ’s mercy that comes with faith.