When he was at table with them, he took the bread. He blessed the bread, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him!(Luke 24:13-35)

Tuesday, October 16, 2018

The Two-fold Blessing of St. Gerard in My Life


Saint Gerard was born into very simple and humble circumstances on April 26, 1726, in the village of Muro Lucano, Italy, the fifth child of Dominic and Benedetta Golella Majella. As a boy, Gerard was poor, small of stature, and prone to illness. But his family was very loving, and they taught him that suffering and love can work together.

Gerard was so captivated by the passion of Christ and the idea that the Son of God would willingly suffer because of love that he decided he wanted to fashion his whole life in the image of the suffering Christ.

By the age of five, miraculous events began to occur in Gerard’s life. For example, his sister witnessed the statue of the Baby Jesus come alive, play with Gerard, give him a loaf of bread, and then return to Mary’s arms. For Gerard, these extraordinary events occurred so often that they seemed almost ordinary to him.

When Gerard was twelve, his father died, and Gerard went to work for a local tailor to support the family. The foreman was very mean to Gerard, but he accepted his hardships as one following the will of God. For a short while he worked for a local bishop, and later had his own tailoring business. Still, Gerard felt a deeper calling to conform his life totally to Christ.

In 1749, after attending a Redemptorist mission, Gerard decided to join this congregation of missionaries. At first, the missionaries thought he was too frail to join them. They asked his mother to lock him in his room so he could not follow them. But Gerard climbed out the window and convinced the Redemptorists to give him a chance.

Gerard quickly proved himself to be a model religious. He refused to defend himself because the Rule forbade it, even when falsely accused of inappropriate behavior with a woman. Instead, he accepted the punishment and prayed until proven innocent. He was always cheerful and loved stories and jokes. He was prayerful, pious, and extraordinarily knowledgeable of works on theology and spirituality. He offered spiritual direction, performed great works of charity, and gave himself completely to the service of God and neighbor.

Gerard is best known for his miracles. Stories have been passed down from generation to generation, and Saint Gerard is said to have performed miracles similar to those of Christ, Elijah, and other figures found in the Old Testament. Through his miracles, Gerard mirrored the face of Christ to others. He could read hearts, often fell into ecstasy, and was reported to have levitated and bi-located.

Perhaps the most famous miracle attributed to Saint Gerard’s intercession involves a mother in danger of death during childbirth. One day Gerard was leaving the home of the Pirofalo family. A daughter noticed Gerard had forgotten his handkerchief. When she tried to give it to him, he told her to keep it because it would prove useful to her one day.

Years later, while experiencing great difficulty in giving birth, almost to the point of death, the woman asked for the handkerchief. After she received it, the birth proceeded with no further complications. Many women began asking for the handkerchief and the prayers of Saint Gerard to assist them in having a safe childbirth. And so it is that he became known as the patron saint of expectant mothers.

Gerard’s whole life was a testimony to the power of love through sacrifice. Saint Gerard meditated on the crucifix. In his meditations, he realized a truth Saint Paul knew: The power of Christ shines through our human weakness. This human weakness is not the weakness of sin, but the weakness of being finite.

This great saint understood human weakness. Being frail, poor, and always of service, he knew what if felt like to be helpless. Thus, when we feel we have nothing more to give, we can turn to Saint Gerard, and through the empowerment of Christ, continue in loving service. We do not serve on our own; it is Christ who serves others through us.

This is the source of Saint Gerard’s miraculous intercessory power. Consider how many of Gerard’s miracles are exactly what Christ did in his life. Jesus gave bread to the poor, raised the dead, walked on water, accepted unjust accusations and punishment, and brought healing and mercy to the poor and the abandoned. Saint Gerard knows how to help us call on the power of Christ in our time of need and human weakness, giving the power and glory of God room to shine in our lives.

Gerard’s frail body was not as strong as his soul. He died in Materdomini the night of October 15, 1755, at the age of twenty-nine. He was beatified by Leo XIII on January 29, 1893, and canonized by Pius X on December 11, 1904, and proclaimed the patron saint of expectant mothers.

His patronage is a two-fold blessing in my own life

Part 1:  My Grandmother’s Blessing through the intercession of St. Gerard

World War I claimed an estimated 16 million lives. The influenza epidemic that swept the world in 1918 killed an estimated 50 million people. One fifth of the world's population was attacked by this deadly virus. Within months, it had killed more people than any other illness in recorded history.

My grandmother contracted the disease in Autumn that year.  Her doctors told my grandfather to “go home and make arrangements” because she was not expected to survive the night—and the child she was carrying (my mother) likely would not survive either.

The first ‘arrangement’ my grandfather made was to contact family and friends to pray for Grandma, and he had the priest come in to give her Viaticum.  The priest told Grandpa and my great-grandmother about the recently canonized patron saint of new mothers and difficult pregnancies.  Fortunately for my grandma, the priest happened to have a relic of St. Gerard and he suggested they pray for St. Gerard’s intercession to our Lord for a miracle survival for both my grandma and her first baby.  They stayed up all night in prayer after the priest placed the relic on Grandma’s stomach. 

The next morning, the doctor was amazed that Grandma was not only still alive, but in fact so much improved that the prognosis for her survival (and that of my mother, who was due the next February) was good, and she could go home in a couple of days!   

Part 2:  My Mother’s Plea for Intercession and a Promise

In early 1953, my mom was pregnant with me, and she was extremely worried about it.  She had suffered three miscarriages since my brother Bill was born in 1948 and was afraid she might have another heartbreaking miscarriage this time.  Grandma reminded Mom of her own “worrisome” pregnancy and how the prayers to St. Gerard had saved her life and suggested they say a Novena to the saint once again for his intercession.  Mom promised St. Gerard that if this latest pregnancy went to term and she gave birth to a healthy child, she would name the child after him.  His prayers came through for us!  Not only was I born healthy, but Mom said my birth was one of the easiest she experienced out of all 6 deliveries.  When the time came put my name on the birth certificate she and Dad remembered the promise and gratefully wrote Stephen Gerard. 

Without St. Gerard and his intercession on my mother’s behalf to Our Lord Jesus Christ I might not be writing this testimony to the power of the Communion of the Saints. Today, on his Feast Day, I find myself asking for St. Gerard’s help once again in protecting the health of my daughter Sarah as she approaches the birth of her second daughter (Paloma) next month.

St. Gerard, Pray for us!

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