When he was at table with them, he took the bread. He blessed the bread, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him!(Luke 24:13-35)

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Spiritual Works of Mercy--Part II--Lenten Reflections

It's pretty obvious to me that God, through His Holy Spirit, provides us with the opportunities every day to perform every one of the Spiritual Works of Mercy we are examining. We just have to be aware of the circumstances he puts us in to obtain these graces. And the best way to become aware of these opportunities is to put aside at least part of our busy day (sometimes it can be less than 30 minutes a day) for prayer. The rosary is a good start.

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Now, continuing in the series on the Works of Mercy:


Comfort the Sorrowful--Sorrow and suffering take many forms: death, divorce, grave illness, unemployment ( a very big sorrow these days), family problems, mental distress, surgery. How many of these sorrows afflict the people around us and yet go unnoticed without so much as kind word, without so much as a whispered prayer? Sometimes giving a sympathetic ear or just "being with" a sorrowing person is a great act of mercy.

Bear wrongs patiently--Patience, the bane of a world that hurries only to have to stand in line. Strive for patience with the small child's constant prattling or the chronic complaints of the elderly (Let me be clear here--these examples are only examples and not a reflection of my personal life--I consider both my granddaughter and my mother as personal gifts from God and not reasons for impatience!). Try patience with the slowness of the freeway traffic or the drudgery of a job. (OK, these are my personal areas of opportunity!) Maintain patience with those who never say a kind word, with those whose nagging puts your teeth on edge. Have patience wtih your own personal pain and suffering; don't add to the griping around you.

Forgive Offenses--Forgive the sharp criticism, the angry retort so easily and thoughtlessly said. Physical injuries heal faster than mental or spiritual ones; dwelling on a wrong only increases its size, breeding hatred (Prov 10:12), the antithesis of Christ's love. Injuries, voluntary or involuntary, are inescapable; forgiveness heals them.

Pray for the Living and the Dead--It is impossible to physically aid the many people-even those in our own families-who need our help. But we can reach out to them in prayer. All people, dead or alive, benefit from a remembrance in prayer, including those praying.


Next up: The Corporal Works of Mercy

Friday, February 26, 2010

Spiritual Works of Mercy-Part 1 --Lenten Reflection

Continuing my blog from yesterday, I want to copy from the leaflet I mentioned then. It's a very good guide to understanding the Works of Mercy--both spiritual and corporal. I'm going to take about a week, and give short meditations each day on a few of the works.

Admonish Sinners--Correction is sometimes as hard to give as it is to take. It means standing up for moral principles at work, at school, in politics, or in the home. It means taking the time to give needed correction, even discipline, especially to children whose minds are impressionable and whose wills are not yet steadfast in truth.

Instruct the uninformed--Not everyone can be a schoolteacher, but taking time out to help a child with math or spelling or religion homework is instruction as well. So is "showing the ropes" to a new person at work, teaching CCD, and reminding oneself and one's family about basic morality. In a Godless environment, a word about one's own religious values often leaves a thought provoking impression on others.

Counsel the doubtful--As the saying goes, "Advice is cheap", but counsel implies something more loving. It's a Christian approach to solving problems. Doubts about one's faith--about abortion, marriage, or questions arising from death or divorce--do not need a brush-off with a lame excuse. Doubts need direction in the Christian point of view, solicited or not.

I'll write on the last 4 spiritual works tomorrow, then tackle the 7 corporal works on Monday and Tuesday. I'll tie it all together on Thursday with some entries from St. Faustina's diary.

I hope this little exercise in Instructing the Uninformed will be helpful to you on your Lenten journey.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Too many ideas, not enough time!

It’s 11 o’clock in the evening, and I am just now unwinding from my day. It seems the days are getting longer, while at the same time the days are going by faster. Weird, huh? Anyway, the long day involved a lot of time by myself, which leads to lots of different ideas for my blog. But when that happens, I never have the time to write in detail about any of them. My memory is so bad that I can’t remember half of what I thought about yesterday, so many of my “great blog ideas” remain just ideas.

Some of the ideas I had today that I thought were good blog topics were;

The difference between “Catechism” (the classes I attended most Saturday mornings as a kid to teach us about the Catholic faith) and CCD (Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) classes. I may still revisit this topic next week. I want to be charitable, so I really have to think more about what I want to say. Suffice it to say right now that there is a huge difference between the two, in my opinion.

How I felt about Lent as a kid (and for many of my adult years) versus how I feel about it now. It’s not supposed to be “doom and gloom”—it’s supposed to be about getting closer to Christ and preparing to share in the promise of the Resurrection.

Comparing the “styles” and “charisms” of all the different priests I encounter in any different week.

I decided that for the next few days (depending on how much I can get done in any given day) I would like to share the information I found in a leaflet I found in the front of a church in Fresno I attended this week. The leaflet is copyrighted by the Marians of the Immaculate Conception out of Stockbridge, Massachusetts. Its title is “Deeds of Mercy: A New Look at the Works of Mercy”.

The Spiritual and Corporal Works of Mercy, as we learned in Catechism lessons in our childhood, are our Christian duty. It’s also a means of satisfying the temporal punishment due to sin (partial indulgences). It’s behaving in a Christ-like manner. I’ll just list the Works of Mercy tonight. Over the next few days, I’ll cover them in a little more thoughtful manner. (Quite frankly, I’m getting too tired to continue tonight!)

The Spiritual Works of Mercy:
Admonish the sinner
Instruct the uninformed
Counsel the doubtful
Comfort the sorrowful
Bear wrongs patiently
Forgive offenses
Pray for the living and the dead


The Corporal Works of Mercy:
Feed the hungry
Give drink to the thirsty
Clothe the naked
Shelter the homeless
Comfort the imprisoned
Visit the sick
Bury the dead


I’ll tackle the Spiritual Works of Mercy tomorrow, God (and time) willing.

Good night for now.

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Numbers

Have you ever had one of those days when the same thoughts keep creeping up, no matter what else you’re doing? Today was one of those days for me. Sometimes I think God is really a mathematician. I find it remarkable how many numbers show up in Scripture. Not just any number, but the same numbers seem to repeat over and over again—3 and 40 (usually days), 7 (usually gifts or sacraments), 12 (tribes, Apostles). In today's readings we come across a couple of numbers: 3 and 40.

In our first Old Testament Scripture reading, we hear it takes three days to walk through the enormously large city of Nineveh. No numbers are stated in the Gospel reading, but it is apparent that the sign of Jonah that Jesus speaks of relates to the number three as the days Jonah spent in the belly of the fish and as a prophecy about the number of days Jesus will stay in the grave prior to His resurrection. But what is interesting about this is that when Jonah goes to call for the repentance of Nineveh, he only has to walk one day of the three-day journey before the people hear and repent. However, Jesus spent all three days in the tomb, and 2000 years later, many of us are still not hearing His call to repentance.

Jonah tells the citizens of Nineveh that they have 40 days to repent or they will be destroyed. We know the significance of the number 40 as the number of days that Jesus spent fasting in the wilderness and the number of years that the Israelites wandered in the desert. In many instances, the number 40 refers to a period of renewal and the time spent alone with the Lord.

So where are we with these numbers? We are in our 40 days of renewal and repentance. Are we getting the message as did the Ninevites?

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

A confession

I am sooooo sorry! I have been so into my job and myself that I completely forgot to wish Sarah a happy birthday on the 18th and then I forgot to call Alicia and wish HER a happy birthday today!!! I think what threw me off is the fact that they celebrated their birthdays on the weekend prior up at the cabin, and I was in Lodi that day getting commissioned as a Eucharistic minister. But that's not an excuse. I have never neglected to tell them on the actual dates of their births just how much I love them until this year. I feel really bad about it. And at the time I am writing this in my hotel room in Fresno, it's much too late to call Alicia, for fear of waking Lily. So, girls, I am sorry. You know I love you both so much my heart aches when something like this occurs. Please forgive me.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him. (Mt 6:8)

Isaiah's prophetic words should deeply move our hearts, fill them with joyful hope; for in them God promises to provide perfectly for His children's physical needs; and, through His holy Word being sent to them, He will renew their human spirits and offer them salvation. God's Word, Christ, came to us as a humble child; then as a man He put our sin to death in His own human flesh. But through His resurrection He conquered death and now offers us a new life in Him. Isaiah conveys our Father's promise that His Son will not return to Him void but will draw many souls with Him. We play an essential part in the fruition of God's plan.

Jesus tells us our Father-God will fulfill our heart's deepest desires if we will ask Him. There is one qualifying word in this promise; we are to ask for something "good." We earthbound creatures often define "good" to be health, riches, beauty, fame, talents, intelligence, esteem and power. However, God sees as our greatest "good" to be the forgiveness of sin and the renewal of our minds and hearts in His love and truth. If we first ask for and accept this gift, we will then ask "rightly," for our desires will be centered on our love for God rather than our love for self and this world's "goods." God's omniscience sees the "larger picture" and answers prayers in ways assuring the greatest good to all.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

The Chair of Saint Peter

Faith, we know, is a gift from God.
Jesus teaches this in His response to Peter's profession that Jesus is "the Christ, the Son of the Living God." The Father is the source of Peter's inspiration and knowledge. The Father gives the gift to Peter. Peter must make his act of the will to declare it to Jesus. What follows is the defining mission for Peter. He is the rock upon which Jesus will build His Church.

Because of the struggles that have marred the Church over the years, there are Christian communities that reject the Pope, the Bishop of Rome, as the current occupant of the Chair of Peter. However, in some circles there is hope that our Lord's desire the night before He died that we all be one is closer than ever before: "I pray not only for them, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, so that they may all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you, that they also may be in us, that the world may believe that you sent me." [John 17:21]

We can all at least agree that the work of the Holy Spirit, which our Lord left us, is at work in us and among us, when we work together in service of others, in unity and peace. The gates of hell won't prevail in dividing us forever. It is so clear in the last chapter of John's gospel that the mission of service which Jesus gives to Peter, and all those who sit in his chair, is one of feeding His sheep.

We can also agree that when we are baptized into Jesus, we all take on this shepherding, feeding, serving, uniting mission as well. However we use our gifts, as parents, business people, or the elderly - whatever our state of life and way of life - we all share this role of helping our Lord's desire come true.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Follow Me. (Luke 5:27)

These are two simple words that hold a lot of promise for meditation.

"Follow me" is a simple command, but, like the cross each of us is to bear, it has a meaning that is unique to each individual.

Everyone is called to follow Jesus, to discover the salvation wrought for each person by God. Each person is to follow Jesus and to proclaim the gospel—but once again, how each person does that is in part decided by how that person has been formed in the image of God. Some preach, some write (my personal favorite), some cook, some clean homes, some listen, some read to handicapped children, some drive people to and from church and meetings. Some people do all of these. There are millions of ways to follow Jesus.

So while the words are simple, the possibilities are endless. And the season of Lent is a perfect time to discover what those possibilities might be. By fasting, repentance, almsgiving, and prayer, we set out to discover what God wants from us. This is a season for that kind of work--a specially blessed season during which we can discover what it means to follow Jesus.

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I had a couple of occasions today to evangelize and plant some seeds to try and get two different people back to Christ's Church.

The first was a customer who came in to have a hitch installed on his car. Since I was the only one there with the know-how to install it, the task fell to me. As I began to install it, I was making small talk with him and somehow the conversation turned to the customer's experience as a product of Catholic schools and as an altar boy back in the '60s--an experience we shared in that I was also an altar boy in the '60s--in Latin, no less! I was relating all of the wonderful recent events about Lorenzo, Lily, and just the whole Lenten season that just began, when the customer told me that it was all great, but that he felt he had to admit he wasn't practicing and hadn't practiced for many years. I told him it was none of my business, but that I would pray that he return soon. He said he didn't know, he was out of it for a long time. I told him that one of these days, Jesus was going to call him back into the fold and that I hoped it was soon. He said he doubted it, because he hadn't heard Him yet! I explained that it's not usually a one-way exchange and that we hold some of the responsibility for a relationship with Jesus. We have to listen.

After he paid for the hitch, he shook my hand and said, "Nice visiting with you." I replied, with a wink, "See you in church!" He said, "Probably not." I said, "We'll see!" I prefer to think that I planted a seed. Our earlier conversation gave me hope for his reversion.

One of the girls I work with overheard our final exchange and let me in on a "secret" I didn't know. She was Catholic and practiced until she received her First Holy Communion! I have known her for quite a few years, and I never knew this about her! Anyway, she asked me if I would answer a question for her. She wanted to know why some babies who born to parents who are not married are not allowed to be baptised. I explained that the priest who refused the Sacrament was not refusing, but was most likely concerned that the child would not receive the proper Catholic upbringing she was entitled to as a Christian, by virtue of her baptism if the the parents were not practicing Catholics. I said in many cases the baby can be baptised IF the godparents are practicing catholics and the priest is confident the child will be formed in the faith. She gave me the impression she thought baptism was just one of the things parents do when they have kids, and who did the priest think he was, refusing to baptise the baby! I explained the SACRAMENT of Baptism and its importance as the first step in forming a child's identity and faith in Christ--not just as a reason to honor somebody by naming them a godparent, like it is a symbolic position in life. I told her the godparents have to be chosen carefully because should the parents shirk their responsibility in teaching the child about his Savior, the duty falls to the godparents, who will be held just as responsible in the eyes of God should the child be lost to the Faith.

She appeared to be taken aback by my bluntness, but then she said, "That makes sense!" Score one for the Church.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

An Ash Wednesday encounter with Christ

Alicia and Lorenzo just came back from Ash Wednesday services with their foreheads marked with ashes. Lorenzo asked me if I went to the services this morning. I reported that I wasn’t able to get to Mass today. He looked at me with a look that said, "YOU didn't get to Mass today???" Actually I was ABLE to go—in fact I was even at the church!! But my experience this first day of Lent was different than any other I’ve ever had!

I had to work early in Fresno this morning, so a morning Mass was ruled out from the “get-go”. I made arrangements to have “lunch” (a bowl of soup) with the boss at 11:30, so a noon Mass was a no-go. I left Fresno about 2:00, intending to stop at one of my stores in Stockton to catch a few things up, then go to Services at 5:30 in Lodi. I decided to skip the store in Stockton and drove to Lodi, arriving around 4:30. I entered the chapel to spend an hour in Adoration before going to Mass. At about 5:20, none of the priests or deacons had yet arrived to place the monstrance back in the tabernacle, so I volunteered to stay with our Lord until someone came to end the Adoration session for the day. (Adoration usually starts right after the 8:30 Mass and ends just before the evening Mass).

Well, five-thirty arrived. No problem—I said another rosary. Then six. No problem—I said a Divine Mercy chaplet, and Stations of the Cross. Then six-thirty. No problem—I love the one-on-one with my Savior. I assumed that someone would definitely be there sometime between the 5:30 English Mass and the 7:30 Spanish Mass. At about 6:45 one of the elderly ladies that was at the earlier Mass poked her head in the door and was surprised that I was still there and that Our Lord had not been “put to bed” yet! She said she would “hunt down” someone to come and relieve me. Seven O’clock rolled around and now I’m beginning to think that someone has forgotten to check on our Lord (and me) and that I will be sleeping in the chapel tonight! Again—no problem but it would be nice to be able to call Marilyn and let her know. However, when I go to Mass or even to Adoration, I always take my phone off and leave it in the car so as not to have the possibility of disturbing others’ worship. So now I’m getting concerned.

I started hearing families outside getting ready for the Spanish Mass, so I poked my head out the door and asked one of the families if they could let Father know that the Sacrament was still exposed in the chapel, but that someone was there to keep Him company. I thought for sure someone would be right back. I really didn’t want to worry my family (I told them I would be home tonight), but at the same time, I was NOT going to leave our Lord alone—it’s just not done!

I decided to speak to Jesus and ask His permission to take just a few minutes to get the priest myself. I had a feeling it would be alright to walk as far as the church and hopefully find Father Jairo before Mass started and get him to put the monstrance in the tabernacle. Instead, there’s Father Brandon standing outside greeting the families preparing to enter the church! I told him of the situation, and then I said (without thinking first), “I was beginning to feel abandoned!”

Of course, I meant that I felt abandoned by the folks who told me that they were going to help me out by informing a priest or deacon of the situation, with no results. But no sooner had I made the statement to Father Brandon that I realized the absurdity of my statement. HOW COULD I FEEL ABANDONED IN THE PRESENCE OF THE LIVING CHRIST????

Even though I didn’t attend Ash Wednesday services in the traditional sense, I still feel I had the opportunity to reflect and share with Christ a real examination of conscience and have an encounter with Jesus that I won’t soon forget!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Lent is time of penitence and renewal


Psalm 51, one of the most beloved of the penitential psalms was written by King David shortly after his affair with Bathsheba when he was confronted by Nathan the prophet about his great sin against his God and against his nation. It is known as the Miserere, which comes from Latin meaning "mercy" and from the first line of the psalm, which begins, "Have mercy on me, God, in your kindness."

King David wrote this psalm as part of his repentance for his great sin. This psalm is recited every Friday in the Liturgy of the Hours within the Church worldwide. If you do not pray the Liturgy of the Hours, I would encourage you to reflect on this psalm regularly during the Lenten season, and think back on those times when you needed God to blot out your offense or to wash away all your sins.

Lent is a time of penitence and renewal, a time that is so well stated in this psalm. You will remain in my prayers this Lent and I pray that you may find the many graces that God bestows on you as you renew your journey with our Lord in your life as a Christian.

Lent is not a unique season, different from Advent or Christmas. It is part of the journey, the continuum, the falling in love, staying in love, growing in love with Jesus. Lent is an invitation to be open, to be transformed, to be loved. To be open to Christ’s love, to His invitation, to His challenge and it is not always easy. Lent is a get-away time—a time to spend together, the Lover and the beloved. It is a time to relax into the relationship, to enjoy, and to refresh and to grow within our unique and intimate bond. Lent is an invitation to trust. Lent is an opportunity to allow Mystery to reveal truths about who we are and who we are called to be.

We are invited to pray, fast, abstain and give alms. But these are not ends in themselves. They are suggestions regarding ways to make room for, to open up to, and to be available to Mystery. To pray – just another way of saying spending time, paying attention, being available to Jesus. Sincere intimate conversation, laughter, tears and deep silent present being-with is prayer. To abstain from that which distracts us from Christ is to make room for Christ. He brings humor, peace, joy, comfort as well as challenge. The graces of Advent and Christmas support whatever the gift of Lent. Often change and/or reconciliation is the gift of Lent. Movement from un-freedom to freedom may occur within the intimacy of the relationship. Jesus’ love changes us. Within Mystery the invitation to reconciliation is gently and mercifully offered. The inner shift from un-freedom to freedom can be this year’s Lenten gift. Lent is about inner healing, inner growth. Our personal Lenten journeys will resemble no other, because they are unique to our relationship with Jesus. Lent is not a season of doing something, but of experiencing something. Lent is the experience of something deep, exciting, challenging, sincere, profound and self-changing—something in our face, or something subtle and almost overlooked. The graces of Lent, as with Advent and Christmas flows and grows within and through us forever, it is not seasonal.

On the journey from the stable under the stars to the cross under the broiling sun to the glorious Resurrection morning, may we come to a heartfelt appreciation that yes, evil does exist and we compassionately witness the pain and suffering, possibly live it ourselves. May we come to a heartfelt knowledge that God never abandons us and is ever present – in the waiting, in the pain, and in the rescue. And that we may live in unending gratitude for the gratuitous gift of God’s love ever at hand.

Sunday, February 14, 2010

A Cause for Joy and Praise to God

As promised yesterday, here are some quick glimpses of Lorenzo's baptism and confirmation in the Catholic Church.

Father: Lorenzo, What is it you ask of God's Church?
Lorenzo: Faith

Father: Let us pray. Almighty, everlasting God, Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, look graciously down upon this Thy servant, Lorenzo,whom Thou hast graciously called unto the beginnings of the faith; drive out from him all blindness of heart; break all the toils of Satan wherewith he was held: open unto him O Lord, the gate of Thy loving kindness, that, being impressed with the sign of Thy wisdom, he may be free from the foulness of all wicked desires, and in the sweet odor of Thy precepts may joyfully serve Thee in Thy Church, and grow in grace from day to day. Through the same Christ our Lord. Amen.


I baptize thee in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
It was at this point in the ceremony that the church bells began to sound the "Angelus"!
The anointing with oils.

Lighting the candle that represents the Light of faith.

Lorenzo did well answering questions about the faith just before the imposition of the Holy Spirit upon him by Father Petronio.

Confirming the 7 Gifts of the Holy Spirit within Lorezo

Lorenzo's "support group"--notice the joy on everyone's faces!
For the "post-ceremony" pictures, look on Lily's blog!

Don't judge illegal immigrants until you know them

I think This article , including the conclusion of the author, pretty much sums up what's wrong with our immigration policies in this country. We tend to take the dignity and worth of every human being affected out of play when making decisions based solely on black-and-white law.

We need true immigration reform that would allow a speedier process to naturalization for hard-working, tax-paying, AMERICANS like "Joe" in the article. The circumstances of his arrival in America were not in any way a result of his own actions, but his obvious love of this country and his obvious efforts at taking on the responsibilities commensurate with citizenship should be able to "fast-track" him through the system. If we were to send him back to a country he virtually does not know or remember, he would be an outcast in two societies. How compassionate and dignified is that????

Of course for those who want to take advantage of US generosity and compassion and not take on the responsibilities that come with being productive members of society, a line must be clearly drawn and penalties--including deportation--must be used. I submit however that it appears the "easy" solution of deportation is employed in far too many instances with little or no thought of the consequences to the right of every human being to live in liberty and freedom.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Setting the stage for a terrific love story!

Here's another one of my famous "cellphone photos" with the crummy detail, but I hope it's good enough for Mom's next entry in her blog. I took it while we were waiting for Father to show up today for Lorenzo's baptism.

I won't go into the details and steal Mom's thunder, but suffice it to say this is what St. Patrick's Church and Rectory looked like in 1941.

Ok, Mom! I've set the stage! Time for you to write another blog! I'll repost the picture on your site once you've written it!

Give Glory to God, and Happy "Re-birthday", Lorenzo!

Wow! What a day! Praise God! I had the privilege, through the grace of God, to stand for Lorenzo as his Godfather and sponsor as he was baptized and confirmed in the Catholic faith. It was a beautiful ceremony and experience. I had to hold back tears several times, and I’m pretty sure Lorenzo was feeling the same.

The first occasion for tears (for me) came when the priest (Father Rolly Petronio) was pouring the water over Lorenzo’s head. You can call it coincidence, but I found it pretty Providential—just at that moment, the church bells began to ring! The tune was for the Angelus! Mom says she was aware of the same thing. I’m not sure anyone else caught it.

My last occasion for tears was at the conclusion of the Rite of Initiation, when Father shook Lorenzo’s hand, and then hugged him. It was such a “fatherly” hug—so full of love and acceptance, I was overwhelmed!

The next Sacrament for him will be his First Holy Communion with the rest of the family tomorrow in Arnold, where they are spending the weekend to celebrate Alicia’s and Sarah’s birthdays. I wish I could be there for this important milestone on his journey within the Church, but I am required to attend Mass tomorrow in Lodi for my own “commissioning ceremony” as a Eucharistic Minister.

Before the ceremony, we met up in Murphy’s to have a continental breakfast at Aria’s Bakery. Then we drove back down the hill (a 10 minute drive) to St. Patrick’s in Angels Camp. The rite was supposed to begin at 11 AM. We waited until 11:05, and no priest had shown up yet! We found a parishioner who was at a meeting who agreed to find Father Rolly, since without him the rite wouldn’t happen. Evidently, there was a miscommunication between Father and his secretary as to the time of the baptism—he had planned to start at 1pm!

Not to worry—it turns out Father lives right across the street and he was able to come over and start the proceedings by 11:15.

When it was over, we all went back to Murphy’s for lunch. The reasons were two-fold—to celebrate Lorenzo’s “re-birthday” and the girls’ birthdays, since I won’t be able to help them celebrate it tonight. I presented Lorenzo with a medal of Our Lady of Guadalupe. I chose that medal because I felt his father, whom Lorenzo has told me had a devotion to Our Lady of Guadalupe (and has passed away, so he couldn’t be there with us physically today) would have probably chosen it as a worthy baptismal gift. I hope “I done good.”

There were pictures taken, but since I don’t have the cameras (the family is still using them this weekend), I’ll post them tomorrow on both this site and on Lily’s site.

Friday, February 12, 2010

With free will comes choice--choose wisely!

The gift of a free will has always been both a blessing and a curse to us. It is part of what distinguishes us from lesser creatures and allows us the wonderful depth and breadth of our experiences. Its misuse on the other hand, brings on us and on others grief and heartache.

At times it seems as if we don't realize that we have intelligence and a free will, but bumble blindly through life as if we were salmon rushing upstream in a frenzied pace to breed and die. We blame each other, our parents, or our life circumstances for our actions. We don't seem to understand that while we may not be able to control what happens to us and the feelings that are elicited, we can control how we respond.

We need to learn the lesson of the Garden of Eden. We should praise God for the wonderful gift of a free will that He so graciously gives us. Let’s not forget that with Him and in Him are the graces we need, and to use our free will for His greater honor and glory and for the salvation of our immortal souls. It would be well to recognize that we alone bear the responsibility for our sinful behavior and in God is the source of power to overcome the evil in our lives.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Some "Godfatherly" advice to our 'new' Catholic

When I read the account in Friday's gospel of the "deaf and dumb" man, I had thoughts of Lorenzo's reception of the Sacraments this weekend. I figure this is a good time to give some Christian (as well as "fatherly") advice and counsel. In the gospel the crowd brings to Jesus a deaf man with a speech impediment and begs Jesus to lay His hand on him. Note how Jesus deals with the man, one on one, sensitively, carefully and compassionately.

“He took him off by himself away from the crowd. He put his finger into the man’s ears and, spitting, touched his tongue; then he looked up to heaven and groaned and said to him, ‘Ephphatha!’ (that is ‘Be opened!)”

The basic question for Jesus, and the one He hopes we learn, is always: What does my neighbor need from me today?

How often do we find ourselves selfishly reversing the question to: What do I need from my neighbor?

As members of the Body of Christ our primary vocation is extending Christ’s presence: we are Christ’s hands and hearts on this planet. God depends on us to touch our neighbor as Christ would if Christ were here.

That’s why I’m so proud of my children—Sarah, and her work on behalf of God’s children who are caught up in the web created by those who ask the selfish second question, above, and take advantage of the former to further their own agendas. And Alicia, who as the mother of a baby must always not just ask what Lily might need, but must instinctively “know” what she needs and accommodate that need, just as Jesus did in our gospel reading.

Through our baptisms and confirmations we all receive the graces we need to be able to ask, “What does my neighbor (mother, son, daughter, father, friend, co-worker, etc) need from me today?” and “How can I accommodate that need?” Our “job” as baptized Christians is to become the face of Christ to others.

Let’s thank God for giving us the Spirit of Christ in baptism and ask God to be open to this Spirit so we might truly be Christ’s presence for others.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

The Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes

For about 10 years in the sixties, my family and I were parishioners at Our Lady of Lourdes church in Northridge, Ca. I was confirmed in that church. Today, my home is about 10 blocks from Saint Bernadette Catholic Church, and though we are registered at Saint Luke’s, we still attend Mass at St. Bernadette’s occasionally (when I’m not on the road or taking Mom to Mass at her parish in Lodi). So I have a special interest in Our Lady’s apparition at Lourdes and the miracles that continue to this day at the site.

On February 11, 1858, Our Blessed Mother Mary appeared to a fourteen-year-old girl named Bernadette Soubirous in the recess of the Massabielle cliff near Lourdes, at the foot of the Pyrenees. She appeared a total of eighteen times, with the last appearance on July 16th—the Feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel. Our Lady spoke to Bernadette with reverence and told her she was the “Immaculate Conception”, a name that had not been revealed to the general public but only to the Bishops and upper clergy at that point in time.

In the reading in 1 Kings we find God is displeased with King Solomon, the son of David because he is worshiping other gods. He was following the beliefs of his many foreign wives, building high places for worship and other forms of recognition to their many gods. “The LORD, therefore, became angry with Solomon, because his heart was turned away from the LORD, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice…” (1 Kings 11: 9). Why did the people back then build these statues and monuments to other gods when the first commandment reads “I am the Lord your God, you shall not have strange gods before you”? Probably for the same reason that devotion expressed by focusing more time, money or energy towards things other than of God or in things that don’t advance His kingdom here on earth are a modern day way of worshipping other gods. We realize we are all guilty of these acts and this reading is so relevant to us today.

In the Gospel from Mark we find Jesus crossing the path of a woman, a non-Jew, who has sought Him out to heal her daughter who is possessed. Jesus starts to dismiss her saying He should take care of the children (of Israel) first. But, she pursues her quest for healing for her daughter saying, “Lord, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s scraps.” (Mark 7:28) And Jesus heals her daughter with a word because of her persistence and belief in Him. Again, this is relevant to today’s world and a reminder to be persistent and believe the good Lord can work the miracle you seek should it be His will.

Pray the Rosary! Ask Mary to help us remember that her Son is the model of perfection we need to strive to be! Our Lady of Lourdes, Pray for us!

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

One more parish visited!

I was able to participate in Mass at one more of the churches on my pilgrimage to visit each of the parishes in the Fresno and Stockton Dioceses. Today's experience was at Holy Spirit Church in Northwest Fresno. The church is less than 10 years old. Construction began in 2000. It is very beautiful, in a "privileged" sort of way. While the liturgy was very orthodox, and no less reverent than any of the churches I've visited in these dioceses, I am somewhat put off by all of the (in my opinion) excessive marble and the fact that the Tabernacle is in a "room" off to the side. I prefer it when the Tabernacle is given the highest place of honor and reverence. Again, it's just my opinion. When I first enter a church, I like to see the Tabernacle and not have to "hunt" for the sanctuary candle so I know in which direction to genuflect. The "glitz" for me was a distraction and I had trouble paying attention. I guess I'm spoiled because most of the churches I have visited were built in the early-to-mid twentieth century, and they have a "feel" of reverence. In this church, I had more of a feeling that it was built for entertainment, instead of worship. Again, just my own tastes. Here is a link to pictures of the interior:
http://picasaweb.google.com/HSfresno/InteriorOfHolySpiritCatholicChurch#5309036732975262242

I must say, however that I absolutely LOVE the art of the various manifestations of the Holy Spirit that adorn the area behind the altar and at least the church has a very beautiful, traditional and prominent crucifix above and behind the altar.

The next church on my pilgrimage list I'll visit that I have never been to (surprisingly!) is St. Patrick's in Angel's Camp. I'll be there on Saturday for Lorenzo's Sacraments of Initiation. I can hardly wait!

Monday, February 8, 2010

Some preparation for Lorenzo and a refresher for some of us!

I'm getting almost as excited as Lorenzo about his upcoming "rebirth" into the Church that Jesus Christ founded! I thought that since it's less than a week away, I should cover some of the basics of what I think all of us should know about our faith and two of the "Sacraments of Initiation". As I was investigating this information this weekend, I was surprised at how much of this I have taken for granted, and even forgotten! I'm sure there's a lot of us in the same boat and refreshing our knowledge may lead us to a fuller understanding of our obligations as Catholics.

Baptism has six primary effects, which are all supernatural graces:

1. The removal of the guilt of both Original Sin (the sin imparted to all mankind by the Fall of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden) and personal sin (the sins that we have committed ourselves). If only we could remain this way! (sigh!)

2. The remission of all punishment that we owe because of sin, both temporal (in this world and in Purgatory) and eternal (the punishment that we would suffer in hell).

3. The infusion of grace in the form of sanctifying grace (the life of God within us); the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit (wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude (or courage), knowledge, piety, and fear of the Lord) and the three theological virtues of faith, hope, and charity (or love).

4. Becoming a part of Christ.

5. Becoming a part of the Church, which is the Mystical Body of Christ on earth.

6. Enabling participation in the sacraments, the priesthood of all believers, and the growth in grace.


Confirmation is regarded as the perfection of Baptism, because, as the introduction to the Rite of Confirmation states:

By the sacrament of Confirmation, [the baptized] are more perfectly bound to the Church and are enriched with a special strength of the Holy Spirit. Hence they are, as true witnesses of Christ, more strictly obliged to spread and defend the faith by word and deed.

The Sacrament of Confirmation confers special graces of the Holy Spirit upon the person being confirmed, just as such graces were granted to the Apostles on Pentecost. Like Baptism, therefore, it can only be performed once, and Confirmation increases and deepens all of the graces granted at Baptism.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church lists five effects of Confirmation:

1. It roots us more deeply in the divine filiation [as sons of God], which makes us cry, "Abba! Father!"

2. It unites us more firmly to Christ.

3. It increases the gifts of the Holy Spirit in us; remember that the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit are wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude (or courage), knowledge, piety, and fear of the Lord.

4. It renders our bond with the Church more perfect.

5. It gives us a special strength of the Holy Spirit to spread and defend the faith by word and action as true witnesses of Christ, to confess the name of Christ boldly, and never to be ashamed of the Cross.


As a side note, (and a personal note to Lorenzo)it is customary to take on as your own the name of a Saint that you can call on to help you remember the promises you will make upon your Baptism and Confirmation. So get to thinking.....!

Nuns having fun?


Look at this website for more:

http://livejesus.blogspot.com/2010/02/nuns-stopping-traffic-again.html

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Father knows best

This Sunday’s readings are perfect for thinking about vocations. How many of us have thought as children, "I want to be a fireman - I want to be an astronaut - I want to be a movie actress." Then, as we grew older, our choices became more realistic. "I want to be a veterinarian - I want to be a nurse. . . ." More rarely, a person feels "called" to be or do some special work. It sounds so noble, because it takes both courage and humility to answer a call!

Personally, my career goal was to become a policeman—more specifically a Highway Patrol Officer. I thought that would be a good springboard into politics. I even began my college studies and received my Associate Degree in the Administration of Justice. The more thought about it though, the less I felt qualified to pursue this endeavor. I was concerned for my personal safety as well as the feelings of my loved ones if something were to happen to me. On top of that, I found I have an aptitude for management and leadership and, after I realized these are the gifts that God has blessed me with, I plunged headlong into my career in retail management, knowing that He would let me know if I made the wrong decision. At first, I was not really happy with my decision. How glamorous is retail management, after all? As I would soon find out, the decision led not just to a career, but to my vocation as well. If I had not continued working for McDonald’s, I would not have met and married Marilyn, we would not have had children, and I am positive I would not be as happy and fulfilled as I am today.

The two persons in Sunday’s readings, Isaiah and Peter, were both called, but felt unworthy to accept their calls until they were strengthened and encouraged by God. In today's reading from the first chapters of Isaiah, the young prophet is aware of his sinfulness as he experiences a vision of God on His throne about to make a decision. Whom will God send as His messenger to clean up the mess left by King Uzziah and bring the people back to fidelity? After one of the heavenly seraphim has touched a burning coal to his lips (Man, that had to hurt!), Isaiah now feels worthy enough to cry out, "Here I am! Send me!" And so, Isaiah's whole life's work begins.


The gospel portrays an unforgettable day on the Lake of Gennesaret. Simon Peter and his partners, James and John, are tired and discouraged after a night of fruitless fishing. Jesus prevails on them to let Him use their boat as a pulpit. After Jesus has preached a while to those on the shore, He dares to ask these tired fishermen to try just once more. Simon must have thought, "He's a good preacher, but He doesn't know much about fishing!" However, Peter obeys, and puts out to the deep. To his amazement, the nets are filled to breaking with huge fish. In panic, Simon calls for help. Now the two boats are in danger of capsizing as they carefully head for shore.Like Isaiah, Simon feels unworthy. He falls on his knees, crying out, "Depart from me, O Lord, for I am a sinful man." With amazing powers of persuasion, Jesus says to Simon Peter, "Do not be afraid; from now on you will be catching men." They leave a profession they know very well, for a new life filled with uncertainty and danger. And not just Simon Peter but also his partners James and John are willing to take the same risk. While we may not have the stature of an Isaiah or a St. Peter, God knows better than we do what vocation in life will make us truly happy and fulfilled.

The wisdom of God often seems like foolishness to humans. Jesus that day issued an invitation. Simon Peter, James and John had trust enough to answer it!

We must pray every day that young people (and older people, too) will have the courage and the humility to answer God's call to the consecrated life and to the Priesthood. They need a lot of encouragement from their families, the Christian community and close friends who know them.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Focus, Focus, Focus

It's so gratifying to know that the Holy Spirit knows what I need when I need it, because I often get so self-involved that I forget the important things in life.

Take today, for instance.

I wanted to go to the Adoration Chapel and read some Scripture, any Scripture while in the Presence of Christ. I seem to get more understanding of it when He's right there to help me. Anyway, I thought as a lark I would just open the Bible that is there and read whatever Book it opened up to. It opened to Sirach. This struck me as providential, because I was reading an article in Liguorian magazine just yesterday that described the book of Sirach by many other names. The introduction to the article says: "Some call it The Wisdom of Jesus Ben Sira. The New Revised Standard Version of the Bible calls it The Wisdom of Jesus Son of Sirach, and The New American Bible calls it Sirach, the Greek form of the name. It is also known as Ecclesiasticus, Latin for "Book of the Church," a designation that probably stems from the book's frequent use as a kind of catechism in the early centuries of the Western Church."

On top of that, the first Mass reading today is from Sirach!

I've decided that since the Lord appears to want me to read this book, I will try to get it done in the next week or so. I've already got some pretty good ideas on some blogs I can write about this very interesting book, but no more time for writing tonight.

So I will close by saying, Thank You Lord for keeping me focused as I try to set an example for my family, that they may come to know and love You as I do.

I had no idea I was so tired!

Every now and then, my body says, "Whoa! Slow down! I can't take it any more!" Usually though, I feel it coming on. I have not had a day off in over 2 weeks. I've done it before, but this last couple of weeks were filled with looong days, and I was away from home. They were not so taxing physically, but mentally I was a wreck! My solace was Mass and the Eucharist and my daily Scripture readings.

Anyway, I got home on Thursday evening (late) and managed to see and play with Lily Bug for about an hour while the family watched "Biggest Loser" (a program I have no real interest in watching). Then I wrote my blog and got to sleep about 1 am (my usual time). I was up at 6:30 (a little later than normal, but I didn't think much about it then) and went to work in town here. When I got there, the girls who were working that day asked me if I felt alright. I replied Yes, I felt alright, just a little tired. They looked right at me and said I looked like I hadn't slept in weeks! I didn't understand why they would say that. When the next group of co-workers came in, they said they were glad to have me back, but that I should probably go home. Again, I said I felt ok and I was going to lunch. For the first time in my life, lunch was a blur--I know I was gone for a couple of hours, but couldn't remember what I had! All of a sudden, I was "sleepy-tired". Not physically exhausted, but drowsy! I managed to get in a full day--(I am paid for doing a full day's work, after all) and when I got home I had a few things left to do on the computer. I got those done right after dinner, then sat down to write my blog.

Fat chance! Lily was making up for the lost time from last week and wanted me to read every book she owns! She likes it when I use funny voices and pretend to "chase" her around the house. She was giggling and giggling. Finally, about 8:00 it was time for her bath and bedtime. My sleepiness returned, so I sat down in the recliner about 8:30. I was half-interested in some program that was on the TV and I remember looking at the clock when it said 9:20. I woke up this morning at 6:45 when I heard Marilyn straightening up the room from the "Lily whirlwind" last night. That's at least 9 hours of sleep! I haven't slept that much in one night in a long time! And that was without the C-Pap!

I'm going to have to learn to pace myself from now on. It's not good to be so focused on work that you forget the important things in life.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

The Mass is ended!

We hear a directive from the priest (sometimes the deacon) at the end of every Mass. It is not just a statement that the Mass is over. It is a directive to go forth from the Church with the message of Christ for all those we encounter.

The gospel Thursday describes how Christ sent out the twelve apostles. (Mark 6:7-13) They had spent three years with Christ. They must have felt exuberant about their own connectedness to Christ. What if they had just gone back to their lives acting the same as before they had met Christ? Where would we be today?

Granted, most of us are not going to be missionaries in the sense that the apostles were, but we are expected to spread the Word of Christ in our daily lives at home, at work, with our families, friends, and even our enemies.

We too, received the Holy Spirit on the day of our Confirmation. We should react with zeal and confidence when we hear the priest say, "The Mass is ended! Let us go in peace to love and serve the Lord and one another!"

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Constant prayer-a key to increasing faith

Someone once joked that you can tell people that there are five billion stars in the night sky and they will believe you. But put a sign that says "Wet Paint!" on a park bench and they will have to touch it to believe you. Why is it that we find it so easy to believe some things and so hard to believe others? Why is it that we find it easy to believe complete strangers but doubt those close to us on a regular basis?

It’s not surprising that Jesus faced a disbelieving audience when He went to teach in his native town. As human beings we find it so easy to not believe those whom we should be trusting and listening to. We also find it easier to take offense at those who are closest to us while letting much larger offenses at the hands of strangers go virtually unnoticed, or at least unquestioned. This must be one of those things of human nature we'll never understand.

But the questions for us today are, "Do we allow this to happen in our relationship with the Lord?" Do we feel we are so close to Him, and Him to us, that we miss what He is telling us or do we just fail to notice? Do we hurt our Lord by ignoring him? Or, do we sometimes actually take offense at His teachings?

That is what happened when He taught those who knew Him and the results were stunning: "He was not able to perform any mighty deed there."

Faith is the cornerstone of the effectiveness of the Lord in our lives. If we do not believe in Him, nothing miraculous can be accomplished through Him. Even among His own people, the Lord was unable to accomplish any mighty works.

How do we choose to limit the Lord? What assumptions have we made that, perhaps unknowingly, put limits to our faith? Maybe we assume the age of miracles has passed with the coming of the age of science. Perhaps we think that we are too unworthy to be invited into the power of the Lord. Maybe we assume that the world is too wicked, or people too stubborn, or a particular person too evil to withstand the miraculous intervention of the Lord.

We need to weed out the barriers to faith, to cast them aside. We need to find out what we think, that stands in the way of what the Lord thinks. And there is only one way to do this--prayer, constant prayer. Through prayer we begin to understand God and we begin to understand the limits of our own knowledge. When we pray for release from our own prejudices, the Lord will oblige in His time.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Recognizing and Thanking the Holy Spirit



It is hard to believe that Ash Wednesday is only a week and a half away. On Tuesday, the Feast of the Presentation, we are provided with readings that provide a nice summary of salvation history as we prepare to enter the Lenten liturgical season. There are several themes or thoughts that might serve as a focal point for any of us as we begin Lent.

There is always the overlying theme of "Obedience." Mary and Joseph followed the expectation of their day, and presented the Child Jesus in the temple. Our Catholic faith also expects things of us that seem difficult at times, but they aren’t really. One of the “precepts” or rules of the Church (not to mention the Third Commandment) is that we attend Mass on Sundays. I was reading a bulletin in one of the churches here in Bakersfield yesterday trying to find a Mass time that would fit into my schedule and I wasn’t really surprised to find out there was a Mass on Saturday evening, 4 Masses on Sunday morning, and a Mass on Sunday evening. Those were just the English language Masses. If you count the Spanish Masses, there is no excuse for not obeying this precept. So why do we sometimes try to use the excuse that Mass just doesn’t fit into our busy lives?

We might ponder how much we allow ourselves to be directed by the Spirit of God in our daily lives, which leads to another theme, that of recognizing and appealing to the Holy Spirit for direction on a regular basis. The Gospel makes reference to Simeon with the phrase, "The Spirit was upon him." (Luke 2:22-40)

Could anyone say that of us? There is no reason this should not be true. At Baptism, we all received the Spirit. After Baptism it becomes a choice to have Him with us or not. Actually, that's not accurate. He is always with us. The choice is whether we recognize Him and let Him help us or not. He won't force Himself on us, but I have found that life is a lot easier with Him. I often appeal to Him to be with me when I write this blog. I call on Him everytime I take Holy Communion to the sick in the hospital. And, as the Spouse of Our Blessed Mother, I often call on Him to help me understand and perform my responsiblities as a father.

And a final thought from the readings: Jesus did not help the angels; instead, the Father chose to redeem us poor mortals, which brings up the topic of "Thankfulness." (Hebrews 2:14-18).

We have been given so much! Maybe we could take a look at our spirit of thankfulness. Scripture is rich in spiritual direction! We just need to prayerfully read it often and listen to what the Spirit and the Church is teaching us through it!