When he was at table with them, he took the bread. He blessed the bread, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him!(Luke 24:13-35)

Monday, June 21, 2021

Healthy fear vs unhealthy fear


 

For the past few weeks, I’ve had a feeling of dread.  I can’t explain it in any other word than that.  The worst thing about it is that when I’ve been asked what I’m afraid of, I couldn’t put my finger on it.  I’m tired of feeling this way.  So I thought what better way to get past it than to confront it!  There are several Scripture references to “fear” that have enlightened me and given me comfort today.

Fear has a couple of different forms.  First, there’s a form of fear that’s contrary to faith.  It’s a fear that leads us to doubt and even despair.  It’s a fear that results from the attack of the evil one and others who may sin against us.  This form of fear is unhealthy and must be overcome through a faith that turns to our Lord with the utmost confidence and hope.  Unfortunately, it’s also the form most of us think of most often, and I think, the form I’ve been afflicted with these last couple of weeks.

But there’s also a ‘holy fear’ that’s most useful and one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit (Isaiah 11:1-2).  Recall the Proverb that says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom…” (Proverbs 9:10).  At a minimal level, this holy fear makes us aware of our sins and the consequences of those sins, especially serious sin.  And this holy fear leads us to fear the punishment that results from sin, leading us to avoid serious sin.  But the ideal form of “fear of the Lord” we must strive for is “filial fear,” which is the holy fear of a son or daughter of God.  This fear is one that’s grounded in a profound love of God and leaves us so filled with a wonder and awe of the glory, goodness and majesty of God that we’re filled with a desire to please Him and give Him great glory with our life.  Thus, this “fear” leads us to a desire to avoid even the smallest of sin, because, in our love of God, we not only want to avoid offending Him, but we also want to honor Him to the greatest extent possible.

Matthew 7:15-20 should lead us to, at a minimum, a fear of not entering the gate to the “road that leads to life.”  It’s useful to consider Jesus’ teaching in a very straightforward way.  Jesus essentially says that it is quite easy to walk through the gate that is “wide” and down the road that is “broad” in this life.  In other words, it’s exceptionally easy to embrace a life of sin and head toward “destruction.”  Jesus further says that those who walk through this wide gate and down this broad road are “many.” This fact should be the cause of our honest daily examination.  If this broad road is so easy, then we should honestly admit that we can easily find ourselves walking it.

The “narrow gate” and the “constricted” road are found and walked by only a “few,” according to Jesus’ words.  Again, we should take notice of this and take it seriously.  Jesus wouldn’t say this if it were not true.  Therefore, if the gift of the fear of the Lord is alive in our life, and if we truly are a son or daughter of God, then we’ll daily strive to be one of those “few” who find this narrow way to holiness.  And, ideally, we’ll do so out of our love for God and our desire to give Him the greatest glory we can.

Let’s strive to enter the narrow gate and the constricted road and don’t turn back.  Though this requires much determination, sacrifice and love, the goal and end of the road are worth it (1 Corinthians 2:9).

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